Wednesday, August 27, 2008

Answering TA1's comment

If the girl has a boyfriend .... think carefully! Is there any point in expressing your feelings for her? It may be a serious relationship that she is in and she may not be interested in you at all. And, there is no guarantee that her feelings would change even after you have expressed your feelings for her.

The only thing you would have gained is that you wouldn't be feeling so unbearably crazy about what you feel.

Normally, when a person feels very strong emotions, he or she will express them without any prompting. If you haven't reached that stage, it might be a good idea to say nothing at all.

Just as there is a point in expressing yourself, there is also a point in NOT expressing yourself. If you can contain your feelings, then, forget him/her and go your own way. That also shows you have a firm handle of your emotions and you won't get carried away!

1 comment:

- _ - Brian - _ - BrotherBear - _ - BrotherHusky - _ - said...

I totally agree with u miss...
Currently there is also this scenario, in my class... Wont name da fella though. Not good see~~~

Anyways it not good to be the 3rd person in another's love life... Nth good comes off it... How many cases hv been seen now a days?

Marriages are just the same as relationships...The moment thr is a 3rd person, things just go haywire... The whole system breaksdown...

Anyway to Mr. Anonymous of TA1, better listen to what Miss has to say~~~ Best say nth at all...