Sam? My student, Sam? Oh, dear!
Sam, if a bird loves a fish, it is one of those "can't be" relationships. Don't waste you time on it! "Can't be" relationships just can't be. So, there's no point in hoping for a future in it. Leave it and move on. But, there is no rule on Earth which says that birds and fishes can't be friends. Step back a little and put some emotional distance between you and the other person and when you are up to it, just be a good friend.
If for whatever reason, you can't be lovers, then just be good friends!
Fishie, I love your comment and the way you said it! It's so fun! Sam, take Fishie's advice! Many of us have gone through this "can't be" relationships and not just survived but come through as better people, better in touch with our emotions. It is all part of discovering yourself and others! It shows what love you are capable of and gives you an opportunity to handle it well. When you handle it well, you mature.
So, don't worry! Be happy!
By the way, it's not a "waste" writing! I enjoy it. And, yes, Fishie, we have a date in Kampar!
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Hi, Ms Gertrude, long time no see...... Nelson here... care to visit my blog at stormofaheart.blogspot.com
when you are free...
i really agree on ur points in the valentines post....
I'm not your student. You're a lecturer?...I'm sure you are a good lecturer. One of the best that your students ever had. Thanks Fishie for the comment and nice to meet you online!
Sam, that's so true. Miss Gertrude actually can be a very great counselor.
Well I can understand how Sam feels cause I am in the same situation as Sam now.
BUT! But but but but! Recently am so very busy with assignments and tutorials and quizes and not-fail-my-midterm, that I nearly forgot about it. Which is a good thing I hope..
That's why Sam, you are not alone.. hehe..
Well, relationship probs are not uncommon...though in Sam's case, well i got to say that there are many other poeple out there who are having the same troubles as he does.
But live life to the max...u'll feel better~~~ XD
yes, i agree with the both the bear and the fish.... love is always something unpredictable... But love is just a small part of our lives.... we still hav other areas to succeed on.... Like the bear said, "Live Life to the Max"...
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